Leading A Small Group

Small Group-- The Church broken into groups of 6-7 people who meet weekly to study the bible, be relational, and be missionaries.

I've been in the same small group for about three years--I've loved it. But, our group is massive. We're more than double the ideal size, with about 16 ladies. Yikes!

18 months ago, when our small group leader asked if anyone would be willing to step up, receive mentoring, and launch a second group, I didn't volunteer. When she asked me directly, I declined.

Hosting--opening up my home, feeding people, and making sure they're comfy for two hours each week--I can do that. Easy!

Leading--not my thing. I didn't feel like leadership material.

But, I felt so convicted. For a whole year. It wouldn't go away, and no one else stepped up. I evaluated myself and the things that were holding me back, the things that bothered me the most, then cleaned them up or let them go completely. I still struggle with things, of course, but I was also holding on to things that I knew weren't right for me. That was the key--realizing I'm never going to be perfect. Finally, I've decided to co-host and co-lead a group with my roomie. We're launching soon and of all the things that I have going on in my life, this is one of the best decisions I've made.

The worst part is leaving my old group behind. We'll still be cool, but I'll miss our weekly meetings.

Hugs and kisses peeps,

Bethany